I was horny as hell while in Iraq and V was too.  We did things for each other on Skype that neither of us would have thought of before.  I must add that I have always been a very jealous guy, type A personality, military officer.  The horiness in Irag and some change in temperament has caused me to start to think of sex as fun, something we do for enjoyment as opposed to love which is a commitment to your partner.  What I am getting at is that having my wife fuck another man used to be my worst nightmare and it has become my hottest fantasy.  I now realize how much more sex she can enjoy than me and I get enjoyment from her pleasure.  Now don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex and lots of it but she is like the Eveready bunnie and can keep going and going.  I think I am missing a lot by not letting her fuck other men and participating myself.  I could see her fucking another guy along with me and the 2 males taking turns holding off our climaxes in favor of hers.  I think with another guy there to fill in that I could get back up for a second or maybe even a third while he rejuvenates and takes his second and third turn on my won tun wife.  I have grown to where I get nearly as much pleasure from her sex and orgasms as I do my own and giving her more would be much pleasure for me.
      I have told her of my fantasy though usually in bed when we are screwing.  I think she knows I am serious but is still reserved about letting go and doing it.  She has a guy she works with Alan that she would love to fuck.  She has never said so but she gets giddy when she talks about him and she cums when I pillow talk about her fucking him.  Seems pretty elementary but getting her to take the first step has been a challenge.  Kind of like a sky diver that wants to jump but that first step is a bitch.  I have a couple other guys lined up that would fuck her in a heartbeat given half a chance but just need the right time and place and guy.